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Ode to Brandon Joe
Posted On: 04/02/2008 13:54:53
In loving memory of my son Brandon Joe                                   &nb sp;   7-8-82 / 3-8-99           &nb sp;                         &nb sp;

            &nb sp;   Remembering:
Go ahead and mention my son, the one that died you know
Don't worrie about hurting me further, the depth of my pain doesnt show,

Dont worry about making me cry, Im already crying on the inside, help me to heal by releasing the tears I try to hide.

Im hurt when you just remain silent, pretending he didnt exist, Id rather you mention my son, knowing he is missed.

You ask me how Im doing and I say pretty good or fine,
But healing is something ongoing,  it will take a lifetime.
            &nb sp;                         &nb sp;     Elizabeth Dent

If youve read this I want to thank you sincerely,, Brandon Joe was a wonderful person, and the best son a father could ever ask for. He had bone cancer, when his leg broke playing football, we took him to the doctor and thats when they informed his mother and I that we would have the weekend to prepare our son for an immediate amputation of his left leg, above the knee.  I took him to Texoma Lake to camp out, and thats where I broke the news to him. He handled it like a champ!!! I was never more proud of him than on that fateful day. He battled the cancer for the next four years, and finally gave up his coreagous fight on March 8, 1999.  Brandon, I miss you so much....Ill see you soon! Love Dad

 


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04/05/2008 16:46:43
Always remember hes looking down on you, and im sure hes very proud to have had a father like you!  Your forever in my prayers.


04/05/2008 13:47:36
I am so sorry. You're in my prayers.


04/04/2008 17:18:01

I'm so sorry for your loss, and i'm very sure you do miss him, i know what i'm going through i hope my boys will never endure. i couldn't imagine my life without them. I really appreciate you sending me a comment about your blog, and if theres ever anything i can help you with just give me a yell and i'll be there. things will get better for me i love a great man up above looking out for me.


            &nb sp;                         &nb sp;                         &nb sp;                 so thanks again
            &nb sp;                         &nb sp;                         &nb sp;                          trish



04/03/2008 06:22:25
wow...
all that i can think to say is that:






A son is an amazing thing!

When you look at your son, you see yourself alive in them!
They have your eyes, your nose, your smile!
They walk and talk as if they were a miniture you!  

Yet even more amazing is that,
When you look at your son you see, alive in them, their mother!
The woman who you love more then life itself!
...or atleast ...
The woman who once was the source of your heart's every desire!

A son is someone who carries on all the hopes and dreams that lay deep in your heart,

A son is someone with whom, you share all the hobbies and sports that bring you happiness,

A son is someone who learns from all the knowledge and wisdom that you have aquired on your long journey through life as a man,

A son is the ultimate bestfriend!








I dont know how I could ever deal with that kind of loss!
Anyone that strong definately has my respect!


04/02/2008 22:57:08
You are in my prayers and I am here for you, if you ever wanna talk, I have learned ( Unfortunately) it helps, nothing brings our loved ones back but all we can do is try to be strong.
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04/02/2008 20:34:29
Thats terrible. Im really sorry.. You are in many prayers, including mine. :)


04/02/2008 14:30:20
I can't imagine the pain that must still haunt your life!  I don't know that I could or would be able to handle that with the grace that you seem to.

But being a firm believer in Jesus Christ, I know that Brandon Joe served his purpose here on earth and his Father took him Home.  I believe in eternal life and know that you will be with him again.  Just think of the joy in that!!

I will continue to carry you in my prayers.  I have had a pretty rotten day today.  But after reading this I know just how trivial my concerns are in light of what you have gone through.  Thanks for removing me from my own personal pitty party.

I am grateful that I feel the things that I do.  And God's word says that the adversity that we encounter will develop character.  And that is what I see in you.

Shelly


04/02/2008 14:30:00
god
You are in my thoughts!  Jenn