Other than the friends or buddies that you come across over the net; are most friends really worth the trouble?

I had plenty of girlfriends growing up.. Let most of them go to the wayside because my BF at the time starting seeing my boyfriend behind my back..

Put my guard up and let it back down when I met my , now , X husband.  I gave in and befriended a couple of his friends wives...  It was okay until I found out about him and his friends wife.  A girl that he knew since he was in ? late grade school/early high school ...

I turned to a couple people , girls , for " moral support " only to be screwed again.. Long soap opera story...

When I met the guy I am with now I told him "I have no girlfriends, do not want any girlfriends."  "They are nothing but trouble and no matter what they tell you, if given the chance to better their lives, they will turn on you.." 

I feel so bad.  A girl here at work is going through a hard time with a "friend".  Sorry ladies.  I know that not all of you are "back-stabbers"; usually the ones that aren't have had it done to them..

I have always said I am in my own little bucket.. So, if you are a female and have been lied to or stabbed by a "friend"... Jump on in! 

Sorry just ranting, something stirred up old memories.